Posts tagged Gottman
the elusive "say yes to sex" window of opportunity

Let me describe a typical night for the boo and I to you....

Around 10pm or so, a mammoth brick of fatigue slams me over the head, and my entire body no longer comprehends adult-level functioning.  I don't know about all of you, but once I get tired, I must IMMEDIATELY go to bed.  Immediately.  Done.  Otherwise, anyone in my presence is subject to intolerable crankiness, flowing tears of irrational frustration, and merciless ridicule.  My sleepiness levels go from 0 to 60 in about 4.56 seconds flat, and prayers go out to anyone separating me from my down-engrossed cloud of slumber (aka my bed).

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